Can we just stop for one moment to realise just how selfish society has become? I won't go into some sort of deep rambling here, but I've been surrounded by a lot of sadness of late through friends and acquaintances and the sadness they are currently enduring for whatever reason that might be. I'm in a happy place, I'm the happiest I've ever been, sometimes I feel a little guilty for that even though I know I shouldn't. To be honest, I've had my fair share of sadness over the years and I know how it feels when somebody does just the slightest thing to brighten your day, even if it's just smile from a fellow commuter on the motorway as we crawl along on the mundane crawl to work every day - what's the point in being mean to each other? It doesn't help anyone. Instead of going into some sort of sad story, or moaning about how mean the world around us can be, or how rude people are on the street, I'm going to make a few suggestions here. Be selfless today, just once, for a few seconds. If you have the willpower or even just the ability to make somebody smile today, please do it… no matter how small or ridiculous the gesture might feel, you just don't know what it might do for somebody's wellbeing. Here are a few of my suggestions, I'm going to take note and do more selfless things to make the people I come into contact just a tiny bit happier today. ▽ Sing in the car at the top of your voice and smile at passers by, it's amazing how many people smile back… or even join in! ▽ Play around with snapchat filters with somebody you wouldn't normally do that with... ▽ When was the last time you hand wrote a note? Send a short letter to somebody you've been meaning to connect with. ▽ Say thank you. (and please)! ▽ Offer an ear to bend if you see somebody who is trying to vent or reach out - and listen without speaking about you. ▽ Compliment somebody genuinely on their hair/coat/shoes/smile…. I find this the hardest thing to do, but I will try harder to do so… ▽ Send a small gift to somebody in the post - unexpected mail is awesome! ▽ Head over to kickstarter.com and back an awesome project or idea. ▽ Reach out to somebody you miss. ▽ Offer to buy the office newbie a cuppa and show them you are a friendly face if they need you - you could even become great friends. ▽ Share a funny video or an article with somebody it makes you think about. ▽ Start up a conversation with the most interesting person around you right now - anything, the more random the subject the better. ▽ Bake something and give it away. ▽ Tell somebody you are proud of them. ▽ Get to know the waitress/barista/service staff - especially if you're a regular (that Starbucks girl knows your name & your regular drink, but do you know her name?). ▽ Give blood. More than the once. ▽ Figure out somebody's half birthday (add 182 days!) and surprise them with a mini party - I love this idea! ▽ Donate some cash - even just a fiver to a friend who's running a race or growing a mo - it's easy to get annoyed at yet another JustGiving Page, but do you ever donate? ▽ Go old school and play a game with someone close to you - have some childish fun! ▽ Smile as you walk down the street - you might feel like you look crazy, but it's better than looking miserable & unapproachable! ▽ Take someone you are fond of on a surprise picnic! ▽ Buy somebody a coffee in the queue behind you - I've never done this but always wanted to… ▽ Ask that person in a different department for the recipe of the delicious cake they made for the works' bake sale - it's nice to know when somebody loves your baking that much. ▽ Place some freshly picked/bought flowers in a vase for somebody on holiday and allow them to bloom for something to enjoy on their return. ▽ Don't ignore the road sweeper/shop assistant/waiter/barman/postwoman/fellow dog walker - smile, say hello, ask them how they are! ▽ Buy a balloon and give it away… or be silly with it - hours of fun & laughter! ▽ Support somebody you know in something they are doing - be it a gig/live event or getting fit. ▽ Ask somebody what the highlight of their day was - not just how it was, but make them think about and talk about the best part/s of their day. ▽ Hug somebody you love for absolutely no reason. ▽ Invite a friend round for a cuppa or out for dinner - your treat so you can chat face to face! ▽ Buy a multipack of chocolates and leave an unexpected treat on your colleagues' desks. ▽ Plan that trip or holiday you've been wanting to do for a while - and invite somebody to join you. ▽ If somebody is ill, send them a little get well package to keep them occupied/dosed up! ▽ Take your baby into work - a baby (or dog!) gets my lovely lot going every single time - smiles guaranteed. ▽ Leave a photo of a good memory in somebody's car/bag/coat for them to find unexpectedly. What will YOU do to make somebody smile today? Read my "About Me" page here! See more of my travel videos here and more of my food review videos here. Or get in touch via social media through Facebook, Instagram & Twitter for a natter about life in general! Please note – I am in no means obliged to blog or write about this event, brands associated to it or their offerings, but I simply choose to share with my readers, should I wish to do so. Any questions or to discuss a "Secret Stay" or review, please do email:firstname.lastname@example.org All images © 2017 Miss Sue Flay, these may not be used or reproduced without written permission from the owner, many thanks in advance.
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Tuesday, 21 February 2017
Ask me for my amazing sweet hotspots in Cambridge and I really struggle to recommend anywhere worthy of a write up lately. However, ask me for my favourite treat destinations in Norwich and I simply don't have enough fingers to count them all! See my guide to Norwich here for some ideas. But if I read this fabulously tempting menu out to you.... Ahem, queue my beautifully sexy, gruff reading voice... How would this grab your attention?... "Banoffee" 'Banoffee' caramel, lime creme fraiche, maple candied pecans, banana caramel ice cream, hazelnuts, shortbread. All washed down with a smooth flat white. Snickers Salted butter caramel, peanut parfait, chocolate mousse. Paired with Quinta Da Romaneira 10-year-old Tawny Port. Raisin D'Etre Star anise poached pear, rice pudding, Pedro Ximinez and raisin ice cream, arlettes, maple pecan granola, pear caramel. Whilst sipping on a sparkling Chapel Down Reserve Brut. Rhubarb & Custard Baked vanilla custard, honeycomb, rhubarb and cardamom gel, polenta sable, blood orange sorbet. Followed by a Shorty McShortShort coffee. This is just some of the ever-changing plated desserts at Figbar, a very grown up, indulgent dessert bar, newly opened in the heart of Norwich city centre at St John Maddermarket. I've visited Figbar several times now and have enjoyed a lazy Sunday afternoon birthday treat alongside the bearded birthday boy back in September when they had just opened. Their tasty coffee and tempting melt-in-the-mouth mini chocolate bundt cakes got us well and truly hooked. I've since popped in to take away some homemade, bitter chocolate Jaffa cakes, rich coffee financiers and cinnamon frosted buns. There are savoury pies, etc served here too, but the desserts are most definitely the focus here! One drunken evening, after a girly night at the nearby Gin Palace, I even brought some friends here to tuck into their rich chocolate torte and the snickers dessert with raspberry sorbet... the perfect mid-drinking session solution to keep us going! Everything is fantastic here. All freshly baked and prepared on site, paired with well thought out wine and champagne selections, as well as hot chocolate, teas, coffees or cold drinks. Their coffee is supplied by Strangers Coffee in Norwich, just a hop from their front door - and they often share the love of their neighbours through social media by sharing their cakes as a thank you for their support - It's so nice to see such respect in a scrappy world! The staff are super friendly and chatty here, whistling as they work, professionally having a laugh in the open-plan kitchen and their background music choices are spot on. I would choose to visit Figbar for every reason you should ever want cake away from your usual high street offerings. ▽ Birthdays or a special occasion. ▽ Whilst shopping in town and taking a break. ▽ Stopping for a quick blogging session. ▽ Meeting friends - although not too many, as it's a small place. ▽ During an evening of drinks for a sophisticated food stop. ▽ Just whenever you want a great coffee or glass of wine and some homemade, top-quality cake! Indulgent cakes and treats, top restaurant-quality desserts, locally sourced coffee, elegant furnishings, unique crockery to eat and drink from, classy wooden floors and bars to prop yourself against, relaxed tunes, twinkly fairy lights around the bathroom door.... These guys have deserved every ounce of respect they've gained within the short period of time they've been trading. It's a classy little place and the food is excellent. The passion from owners, Jaime & Stephanie Garbutt truly shines through. Chatting to Jaime last weekend, he talked about the 12 years he worked in London and Hong Kong and his love of Norfolk, having worked in the iconic Norwich City Waffle House back in the day, amongst other places. He said that January had been much busier than they had anticipated, thanks to the "Lipstick Effect" - people don't have much money to spare after Christmas, but £5-£10 for cake and coffee is the perfect 'pick me up' that doesn't break the bank. If you have a sweet tooth, then make Figbar YOUR new favourite cakey place and go follow them on social media to get your drool on. www.figbarnorwich.com Read my "About Me" page here! See more of my travel videos here and more of my food review videos here. Or get in touch via social media through Facebook, Instagram & Twitter for a natter about life in general! Please note – I am in no means obliged to blog or write about this event, brands associated to it or their offerings, but I simply choose to share with my readers, should I wish to do so. Any questions or to discuss a "Secret Stay" or review, please do email:email@example.com All images © 2017 Miss Sue Flay, these may not be used or reproduced without written permission from the owner, many thanks in advance.